Chanelle Schneider, also known as @WriterChanelle on Twitter, runs her own blog at ToThereFromHere where she writes on career and life advice for Generation Y. Chanelle is also the founder of the generational chat #GenYChat on Twitter and manages the @GenYChat account.
Sands and hourglasses measure time that passes. Announcer: CongraDulations, college graduate! You just got your degree. What are you going to do now?!
Graduate: I’m gonna go live at my parents’ house!! Woot!!
This sounds like a good idea at first. If you had doting parents, you might relate to Carrie’s statement in the hit series Sex and The City. “On closer inspection, it turns out this living with the parents thing wasn’t so bad. It was like having servants you didn’t have to pay.” Or, you may relate to the guys in Failure to Launch.
Demo: And yet, in America, we’re shunned for our lifestyle.
Tripp: When we should be celebrating our lifestyle. We are men who still live at home.
Demo: Yes.
Tripp: We’re not here to apologize about who we are, and how we do it, and who we live with.
Demo: No!
Tripp: I’m looking around this table, hombres, and I see three winners. And to every one of those out there who sees something different, I say bring it on!
Living at home can be a pleasurable experience where you’re afforded the time to mature and save money in a loving, supportive environment. The fact is that not all of us Generation Y boomerang kids had helicopter parents. For that lot, not being able to escape their parents’ house equates to being trapped in quicksand.
While the recession of the late 2000’s has not been as paralyzing as the Great Depression of the 1930’s, Generation Y young people are stepping out into an economy that is not prepared to give us the opportunities to succeed. We took on federal and private loans to cover the cost of our higher education believing these degrees would offer a return on their investment. Fail. Epic fail. An inability to find good jobs, family pressure within the home, and societal pressure without may lead some to begin considering suicide as an option. Between 1980 and 1985 the Unites States saw record suicide rates in young people between the ages of 20-24 no doubt driven by the financial crisis. In the 25-44 age groups, these numbers have only changed slightly from a high of 15.6 in 1980 to 14.0 in 2002. Source
While a person’s upbringing could have played a role in their development, at some point they must begin to take responsibility for the direction of their life. A general feeling among Gen-Y is that we do not want to repeat our parents’ lives: passionless, complaint-filled, draining, boring and unsatisfying. We wanted to step into the world and make a difference by working in our dream job that both paid the bills and made us happy. Now, we are stepping into the world shouldering more debt and financial responsibility than any generation before us. We keep bouncing from job to job because we want something satisfying; but, will we have to learn how to find satisfaction in what we’re doing and stick to doing what pays the bills?
Quicksand:
- What if there is a job out there that will make me happy, but I just haven’t found it yet?
- I didn’t get a degree and incur all of this debt to be stuck in a cubicle.
- Why didn’t my University prepare me for this?
- No one told me a degree wouldn’t guarantee me a job.
- I wish I had never gone to college
Escape:
- Find a job that you can do now and continue searching in your free time.
- That cubicle job gets you out of the house and affords you the opportunity to be around other people with whom you can network.
- It is not your University’s job to find you, sit you down, and make you prepare for the real world.
- They didn’t know. Adjust the same way you would if a detour came up on your normal route.
- Unfortunately, many of us were sold a dream that we’re now waking up from. Focus on what you did learn about yourself instead.
Have you ever felt the pressure of getting out of the house and into your own place? Are your finances causing you stress? Do you know anyone who is suffering from post-grad depression? Please share your comments below.
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Hey Tyler, enjoy, sounds like a wonderful move for you!
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Thanks Justin...excited to be heading down a new path!
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Thanks for the update. Good luck with the next phase of your journey!
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Thanks Cheryl!
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Congrats and good luck with your new venture!